success sucks
Even if you should have just returned from 40 days of fasting in the middle of desert you would have heard of the most commercially successful movie ever filmed. The Dark Knight broke box office records and set new highs in the world of commercial filmography. Everyone seems to have gone to see The Dark Knight, everyone seems to have written their "review" over at IMDB and everyone seems to have given it 10 out of 10 stars rating. It almost seemed as though the crowds were hypnotized and any rating other than 10 was not even an option.
I've been trying hard to think of anything more irritating than seemingly blindfolded fanboys who religiously repeat their "the best movie of the year" or "the best of all time" chants every time they get a chance and I couldn't. This ludicrous overhyping and overrating of a single picture created a force that resulted in a counterforce. Whether you call it the cause and effect phenomenon, or Newton's third law of motion, the outcome is clear. For many people – The Dark Knight Sucks. The movie is good - it's not great, but it's not a complete failure either.
If you enter "The Dark Knight Sucks" into Google search engine, you will get over 3 million results. Why would so many people react with utter underrating of a movie that’s actually pretty decent? Your answer is above. One extreme calls for another. If one extremist labels it "the best movie ever", the other one responds with "The Dark Knight Sucks".
I can imagine some of those people who gave The Dark Knight 1 or 2 star out of 10 on IMDB, would have otherwise given it 6 or 7 stars, because even if they particularly didn't like it, they didn't really think it was that bad. But to balance out the madness started by the overhyping crowd, the opposing party let themselves heard by blatant underrating. Oh the irony… Why make it such a big deal? It's just the movie!
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First looks will always be essential – It is where all starts. No matter how good your speaking and body language are, the way you present yourself is way too important to leave it unnoticed. With just a few touches you can stop being “one other guy” and become a standout of wherever you go: the party, the restaurant - even in the bus or train. Most men can become, through proper fashion and grooming choices, physically attractive. Some other are really unlucky and don’t have it that easy – but our goal here is to get you to the point where at least the way you look is not an obstacle anymore. Women would have a much harder time.
Implicit assumptions about you will be made after the way you dress. In a woman’s eyes, with just a glance you can be labeled from sexy to normal or even directly boring. Immediately she will believe that your lifestyle is also one of those three – which one would you like her to think you are? Make her make the judgments you want.
So, for starters, go and search for what looks the best for you – those clothes that will inspire the girl to make those judgments mentioned above. Some men will be more attractive with shirts, some other with stripes and a couple more with tight t-shirts. That just depends on you. Seek advice – ask women what suits you best. What will capture the attention and curiosity of other women? It is not hard to find out either. Go out, try your discoveries and see what brings the most success and attention. Build on that and soon you’ll exactly know what clothes you have to use.
Also, if you like a certain type of women, check out for which kind of men is she always around with. Do they dress up in a certain way? Always keep an eye on high status men and the clothes they wear – look into the fashion and details of these men, the ones women want. Don’t go and directly copy them all, just watch and analyze the details. But then, imagine if all your girls were with men wearing black, well polished shoes. Then you could start thinking about dropping the snickers and getting a couple of those, no doubts. If you want to be successful, start thinking about making some investment on it. Cheap clothes could look nice on you, but good quality material will certainly look even better – and results will come according!
Finally, put artistry into your looks – go and dress dodgy. You are already looking good, well dressed and showing off a great presentation. But so do many other men. To stand out it is time for strange combinations, crazy inscriptions, interesting adornments… Those will make the final difference. By no means be cheesy! Keep your line. Don’t get so full adornments nor try many combinations at the same time. That’s not the point. The idea here is to show you are a hit, someone special – so don’t go and look like a social reject.
Dressing up unlike the others you will make you hold up against an overwhelming social pressure. If you can manage to keep up with it, look natural and enjoying the situation women will notice. You’ll be demonstrating a higher value. And that, as we know, in women physic means many, many points for you. So go and buy yourself some rings, chains, nice colored pants… And wear them in the field!
That is all the essence behind dressing up for success. Looking what looks best for you, keeping an eye on high status men and dressing dodgy are the keys. Nevertheless, there are still many details and touches you will be developing over time. Below is a little list of factors you should all be considering and working out before going back to the clubs:
- If you are small, get extra height. Men don’t go wearing high heels as women do, but many shoes can make you a couple of centimeters taller. If you are not small, also try wearing these shoes. We look to stand out and a taller, sexier figure will always sum up.
- You are a bit blind? Still, get rid of those glasses. Personally I love to wear mine out and I think I really look sexy with them. Most men, though, look not. And nowadays you got contacts or laser surgery to fix your eyes. Go and try. Also, consider switching colors if there is one that makes you look much better: colored contacts are cheap and look quite real.
- Remove your excess hair. Some men look nice with beard of moustache – or with some days without shaving on. Do you? If not, shave. Gillete’s advertisements make some sense as women do not really like to go touching men with itchy and dirty skin. If you got too much hair on your chest or back, also consider cutting it out. A bit of hair looks manly, too much makes you look like a monkey.
- If you got acne or scars on your face, go straight to the dermatologist: those guys exist to fix problems as such. We all look better without acne – so consider putting on makeup if you have to. It is not reserved only for women and it’s not girly to look better. So go and buy all the creams and potions you’ll need.
- Don’t go looking sick. Spend some time in the solarium and also whiten your teeth. Never, though, be cheesy – don’t go too brown in autumn, winter. But a bit of color will always look better than a pale, hospital-looking skin. In summer skip the solarium and switch to the good old sun. As for the teeth, it’s a must; No girls would go kissing a guy who has them all dirty and yellow, we can bet on that.
Following my recommendations here will not necessarily make you the hot personality of any party from one day to the other; it is, though, a gigantic step in that direction. Dressing up and the possibilities it opens should not be underestimated. Pursue these instructions and the ones coming and you will certainly see the improvements.
Success in life depends on many factors. Relationship is one of them. Do successful people have better friendships? Is their any relation between art of making friends and success? How to make friends who remain for a lifetime?
What is success?
Everyone of us has his/her own definition of success. An artist feels successful after creating a beautiful painting and a business person feels successful if the business makes profits. Each of us has his/her own parameters that decide success in our life. How do our friendships affect our success?
Happiness and success?
A successful person is essentially a happy person. Happiness means - to feel satisfied with life in most of the ways and to maintain a state of mind that is contented. Our friendships are part of our life. If we want to succeed, we will also have an art of making good friends and keep friendships strong through-out our life.
Maintaining friendships. How?
How to maintain friendships that last? The art is in giving rather than expecting. Share your friends' worries, concerns and happiness. Join them on all occasions that are important to them. Congratulate them at every success, express empathy at every loss and share joy at every success or any enjoyable occasion.
The role of Internet in keeping contacts:
In the earlier times, when the internet was not there, talking on telephones, sending letters and meeting personally were the preferred methods of keeping in touch. After the advent of Internet, emailing and chat are slowly replacing these earlier ways. Use ecards to keep quality contact with your friends.
How to make more impact?
Would you prefer to send a one line congratulations mail to your friends on their birthdays, their anniversary, their promotion and all such other occasion when they are feeling special? What if you search the net and select an ecard or greeting card and send it? Does it make a difference? It surely does. It tells your friend that you took some effort in sending a message. Stop sending plain emails and start sending ecards to connect with your friends on days and occasion that are special. You will find the difference in quality of relationship very soon. Try it.
The world defines success in terms of achieving one's goal, acquiring wealth, status, prestige and power. Successful people are those defined as people enjoying the good life. In short, dollars, power and status is the central definitions of success in the world today. Such definitions have many fatal flaws when we consider the lives of the rich and famous whose lives are wrecked by pain and tragedies.
Is Jesus A Failure?
If the life of Jesus is to be measured by the world's standard, then Jesus was a failure. He was born in a manger. He worked as a carpenter, He had no credentials, degrees, awards, prestige, status, possessions, stocks, bonds, insurance, car or a home. Nothing. He was rejected, hated, spit at, cursed, beaten, mocked and ultimately put to death on the cross. Many of His own people rejected Him. Even His own friends and those closest to him deserted, deny and betray him.
But Jesus died for our sins so that we can have eternal lives. Jesus has no wealth, status, prestige and power.The cruxifiction and suffering of Jesus did not kill His teachings nor reduce His followings.On the contrary His teachings and followers increased significantly to millions worldwide. So is He a failure?
Success According to the Bible
God's measurement of success is defined differently from that of the world. God's measure of success involves our obedience and faithfulness to Him, regardless of the opposition and trials we face. In short God's measure of our success is whether or not we are being loyal to Him and obey Him.
The determination of whether one is successful or not is answered by whether or not one is satisfied with one's life. It should not be based on or measured by someone else's standards. We should determine what our success is by God's standards for He is the one who has created us and He is the one who will judge us and by His standards. Success is much more than just money and status. All others is temporary. When we leave this world, none of it will be of any use to us nor will it guarantee us eternal life. So should we define money and status, which is temporary, as real success? Who amongst the rich today can guarantee their happiness on earth and in heaven?
Does God Want Us To Succeed?
God is not in the failure business. The scriptural truth is, God wants us to succeed. God's condition for success is simple - Obey Him and Obey His Laws.
God Wants Us to Succeed
Proverbs 16:3 - Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.
God Wants Us to Prosper
Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
God Gave Us the Ability to Produce Wealth
Deuteronomy 8:18 - He gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your forefathers, as it is today.
Expected is the operative word. Who sets the standards for expectations? You do! Where is there a uniform code for women to wear standard business attire in a business setting? I definitely haven't come across any legislature. Also, you don't get paid because of what you wear. In fact, successful women CEOs and executives can just as easily be found in jeans. I would dare say that fashion and work do go hand in hand. The fashion industry seems to have realized this as well. Today's fashion designs have taken a decidedly more feminine, edgier look. A look that celebrates a woman's power, success and personality. Clothes and fashion accessories help a woman play up both her credibility and her appeal to her team, business associates and customers by making a statement about her individuality.
Therefore, the real key to dressing for wealth and success, as a business woman, is being true to yourself. Your comfort with who you are and the comfort with what you're wearing, will translate into extreme confidence in your appearance. This then will ultimately translate into great performance. Great performance and confidence then propels you forward to success and wealth.
I also want to point out that comfort with what you're wearing is absolutely essential. It's okay to want to be a Fashionista, but if you are just wearing certain clothing and accessories for fashion's sake and don't feel comfortable, then leave those items for others to buy who do feel these items express their individuality. Also, if you are a person who loves suits and decide to become a jeans wearing type because your team wears them, stick to your suits. Don't try to be something you're not. Again, be who you are. This philosophy is how you attract success and wealth. You're a hard working business woman. Please celebrate your individuality. You'll see how your performance goes through the roof. Also, allow the same for your team. Your success and wealth will greatly benefit from everyone's increased productivity!
So, go ahead and express yourself by setting new standards in business attire. A look that celebrates your power and personality propels you forward to success and wealth.
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YOUR ON YOUR OWN BUT NOT ALONE
Late to bed early to rise Work like hell and advertise. Tell the truth and refuse to lie Be all you can be beneath God’s sky.
Love your family and strive to achieve Triumph by goodness and how you believe. Heed to the whispers of God in your heart Retain integrity and from foulness depart.
Let voices proclaim after you have gone Your love for others still lives on. Real success comes by who you actually are Not by trinkets, a big house or car.
Your on our own but not alone As the deeds of your lifetime are sown. Love, fear, lust, greed, faith and hate Are how you are measured and known.
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Artists, regardless of whether they are tremendously successful or just the opposite, should be looking hard at the turbulent economic times closing in on us. A lot of us have made commitments to our families and loved ones that in this economy will be hard to keep going. For women artists in particular, it may be time for a thorough financial checkup.
We should also define success, because many people judge it differently. The ability to be able to care and provide for your family seems like a good place to start. Paying the mortgage, the kids’ tuition, and other essentials while taking care of both yourself and others at the same time are also probably good common denominators of success. Achieving even this level of success though becomes increasingly challenging as the economy deteriorates.
Okay, so what happens to an artist when demand slows down? You wind up either underemployed or with a boatload of spare time on your hands. You need to consider the value of that open time, and put it to good use. How? Think about starting a side, home based business that will allow you to continue in your present capacity, while making thousands of extra dollars per month.
Find yourself the best online home-based business opportunity you can, and take advantage of it. There are a lot of business possibilities out there, but with the financial crunch that’s happening now, maybe it’s a good idea to sell picks and shovels to the miners. People will be voraciously seeking information over the internet on how to cope with this economic firestorm. Find a product that fills that need, align yourself with a team, adopt a system, and you’re on your way.
As an artist, you by definition can think creatively. But sometimes we tend to ignore some realities in favor of our art. The times are too dangerous for that now. Think creatively about your financial future and the success it potentially holds. And then make it a reality. It’s what art is all about.
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Victor Franco, an Austrian concentration camp survivor, once said, "The experience of life shows that man does have a choice of action. There are enough examples of heroic nature that show that apathy can be overcome…everything can be taken from a person but one thing - the last and greatest of human freedoms: to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances."
What comes ahead of any action is an attitude. Positive attitudes drive your desire and empower your creativity while negative attitudes stifle creativity and achievement. Thus, your success in life depends almost entirely on your attitude. And perhaps the most important attitude you can possess is the desire to be a servant.
Do you sincerely want to help others in your business, or are you just trying to make money? If your goal is only self-propagation, then your business will eventually take a downward turn. Sure, you may find temporary success. You may even make a great deal of money, but you will lose respect and, eventually, business.
However, if your primary goal in your business is serving your clients, then your business will thrive. Clients know you appreciate their business when you follow up with personal attention. Einstein once said, "It is high time that the ideal of success be changed and become the ideal of service. Life's greatest pleasure and satisfaction is in the gift of giving. And the greatest thing you can give is yourself." The Bible says it this way in Matthew 20:26: "Whoever desires to become great, let him become a servant."
Serve other people because you love people not because you are expecting return. If you possess a servant's heart in business, then you:
1. Genuinely care
2. Desire to serve
3. Believe in what you're doing
4. Like what you're doing
5. Pay attention to details
6. Are constantly a student, always learning
7. Demonstrate character, integrity, and honesty
8. Make doing business with you a pleasure
9. Do more than you get paid for
10. Look at life with a new kind of vision
When you approach all of life with this attitude, people will notice! Undoubtedly, serving others is the catalyst for change both in your business and in your world. It is the only path to lasting, satisfying success!
Best-selling New York Times author Paul J. Meyer has served others since he was a boy in the Eagle Scouts and now serves as director to several community organizations. To learn how he empowered millions to be their best, visit www.pauljmeyer. com.
"Keep your riches in the Love of God."
Jude 1:20
There is something I want to get across to you in this Christian Success article. My prayer is that you receive it in your heart, and God opens your eyes if they need opening.
I have a question.
What is the TRUE Success Riches of God? Many people debate Success as a believer, and many people debate the reality of Success as a Christian, but my question is "What is the REAL Success Riches of God?"
It is NOT what He gives you as a child of God. Those are FRUITS of His Success Riches.
It is NOT the Blessings of Christian Success that He so freely gives. That is a FRUIT of His Success Riches.
It is NOT the Divine Favor, Divine Appointments, Divine Solutions, or any other Divine Touch of God from His Holy Throne.
God's Success Riches is so much more than that.
God's Success Riches can be found in His Holy Treasury, and what is in His Treasury is the incredible Love of our Lord and Savior and the vastness of His Affection. That is where TRUE Success Riches and Wealth lies.
But also in His Success Treasuries can be found the Incredible Success Power embedded deep in His Love for us.
God loves us so much that He daily blesses us with His Love and Holy Spirit and His Success Riches. But within those Blessings amd Love is a Power that can create any success you desire, and any life you want.
But it is found in His Holy Love for His children. His Infintite, Incomprehensible, Immeasurable, Undefinable, Unimaginable, and Unlimited Holy Love for all of us.
If you have children, you can somewhat understand. But His Love is incomprehensible in quantity. His Success Riches that are found deep in His Love are simply beyond measure in the natural realm.
We all want the Lord to love us, and to bless us, and to impart His Glory and Success in our lives. But God has desires as well.
He desires that you deeply love Him too.
How do you love Him and take Him on as A Divine Success Partner in your Christian Success walk ? Even before you start taking actions towards your dreams...
1) Read the Word daily- especially Proverbs and James.
2) Praise His Name Daily- put on Praise and Worship Music.
3) Tell Him you love Him daily- 7 times a day!
4) Pray to Him daily and seek counsel with your success efforts daily.
5) Spend time with His Spirit and bless the Holy Name of Jesus.
This alone will ake you "Ten Feet Tall and Supernaturally BULLETPROOF!"
If you do that, the Love of God, which is so immense, so deep, so rich, so royal, so beyond human thought, the same Love that sent His only Son to die on the cross for us and raised Him the third day... can raise your life, dreams, visions, desires of your heart, and Christian Godly Success from the dead.
Do you believe?
blessings....doug
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There is a powerful force that cannot be held captive by our thoughts, emotions, fears, or outside limitations; the one thing that builds a firm foundation that time and circumstance cannot erode. Without it, you are subject to great failings and a meager existence; with it, you experience unlimited possibility and unstoppable freedom. What is this force? Its name is LOVE!
The absolute best definition of love I have ever found is this, "Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails" (1 Corinthians 13:4-8).
If you are thinking that's a pretty tall order, you would be right! But when God issues an order to love, He provides us with the means to do it; that means it is through his Son, Jesus Christ. When I accepted Jesus as my Savior, I learned He would help me love Him and others by expressing His love through me. I certainly can't do it on my own! No one can!
You are God's workmanship!
Once you make yourself available to love God and His ways, you have to learn to love yourself. Not with a self-centered or conceited type of love, but with a genuine love for who God created you to be. He made you and loves you; now you have an obligation to appreciate His handiwork!
Loving God and yourself provides a firm foundation that prepares you to love others and to achieve greatness. Love includes self discipline, taking personal responsibility for your life, and realizing you have a part to play in your success. Operating from the basis of love insulates you from selfish greed, immoral decisions, and the poison of unforgiveness.
One of the saddest things to observe is a person's rise to success and power followed by a tremendous fall. Often this is because the person's talent took him or her higher than the depth of their character could support. When a person has a shallow character, they do not have the firm foundation they need to stay at the top.
How should I show love to others?
I've established several habits that I use to show love for others in my personal and business life. By these principles I show respect, focus on people's strengths, and treat them like I would like to be treated.
·Noticing: Rather than rushing by, slow down and acknowledge the person near you, even if it's with a nod and a smile.
·Listening: Make a point to truly listen, not just talk. People will tell you amazing things if you take the time to listen.
·Asking questions: Ask questions that show you are listening and attentive; that what they are expressing is valuable to you.
·Discovering their interests: Become acquainted with what interests a person. I've actually ended up hiring people after I took the time to learn their interests.
The benefits of love
#1 - For our benefit: God is more interested in our personal growth and character development than He is in our ease and comfort. That's why we are called to love even those who have hurt or betrayed us. Not with a sloppy indulgent love, but with a love that believes for redemption and restoration to a healthier state of being.
God even promises to reward us for showing love through our actions: "But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be the sons of the Most High"( Luke 6:35).
#2 - For others' benefit: When we show love for someone when they don't deserve our love or forgiveness, we plant a powerful seed. I've had numerous people become curious about my faith when they either experienced or observed my love in action. I was able to share about my Savior and the great sacrifice He paid for my own salvation and for theirs.
It is God's will that you love yourself and others by allowing His love to pour through you. In the end, love is simply part of your service to others. Love is not always returned, therefore be satisfied that you have been obedient and leave any rewards for that obedience to God.
As you climb your ladder of success in your personal and business life, take with you the one sure thing that is necessary to stay there…the one force that is more powerful than any other in the world; the source of unlimited possibility and unstoppable freedom. That force is LOVE!
Best-selling New York Times author Paul J. Meyer has written two-dozen full-length programs plus numerous self-improvement books. His highly acclaimed book, 24 Keys That Bring Complete Success, is available at www.pauljmeyer.com.
The basic but important principle of success in life and business is to give better service with a positive mental attitude above and beyond what is expected Nature applies this principle in the production of foods that grow from the soil. The farmer is forced to go the extra mile, clearing the land, plowing it and planting the seed at the right time of the year. He receives no pay in advance for his labor but he works in harmony with nature's laws with the necessary requirements. Nature takes over and germinates the seed he plants and develops it into a crop of food.
For every grain of wheat or corn planted, nature yields hundreds of grains. Nature goes the extra mile by producing enough of every living thing to ensure the survival of the species. Nature discourages the habit of getting something for nothing!
In the animal world, there is no fresh lunch.
Animals in the wild must either forage for leaves and berries or hunt down their prey to survive. Nature supplies the source of food for every living thing but every creature must work to obtain that food.
Going the extra mile in the workplace
An efficient and courteous server in a restaurant is a prime
example of going the extra mile. Most people will notice the extra attention along with good service and leave a generous tip. Anyone may earn a living without going the extra mile but they will not enjoy the economic security and luxuries.
Colonel Sanders of 'Kentucky Fried Chicken' fame pitched his famous recipe over a thousand times before it was picked up and promoted. We all know the rest of the story! Had he given up at any time he would have been stuck with his minimal monthly pension. The Colonel proved that going the extra mile with a positive mental attitude will help anyone achieve their goals.
Advantages of going beyond expectation:
1. Job security when employment is scarce
2. Extra compensation for services rendered
3. Builds a positive mental attitude
4. Develops personal initiative
5. Has a positive effect on co-workers and employees
6. Helps to develop a definite purpose
7. Creates a sense of direction in life
8. Prevents procrastination
9. Helps to keep a clear conscience
10.Stimulates the soul
So if you go the extra mile and make it a daily habit you will stand out in a crowd and enjoy endless success for the rest of your life!
The internet is becoming the main way to find love worldwide; there are so many opportunities now days, who knows your love may be just around the corner. Here I will be giving you a few pointers on how to have success, so that start shall we.
1. When dating over the internet there is no need to spend any money on dating services. There are some great free dating sites out there, which 9 times out of 10 are better than ones you pay for.
2. A good tip when dating online is to spend time on writing your profile, good information about one's self will attract people to contact you.
3. When contacting someone to your fancy, just ask or make a joke about something in there profile. This will tell them you didn't just check out their photos.
4. This is strongly advised DON'T SOUND DESPERATE! Sometimes you may start to like someone quite quickly, but don't let it known. If you sound too eager the may get put off or bored. People like what they can't have so it's a good idea just to chat to start with.
5. Don't give them an instant reply, let them wait and get excited to read your next message.
Online dating is all about how you put yourself across, ladies get bombarded with messages every day. You need to stand out from the majority of blokes out there. You want them to feel interesting and wanted for who they are, not what they look like. Just give it a go see what techniques work for you, don't forget each girl is different. What you look like is not what it balls down to; it's if you make her laugh which is the key.
The average young ladies would be looking for someone who makes them feel good, a special guy who will make her happy.
If you're not confident or have personal issues, let her see the most fantastic side of you first. Make her feel safe and warm around you, I can guarantee if you show her a fantastic time, she won't mind being there through whatever problems you may have afterwards. All I'm saying is if you put any kind of negative pressure on the new person you are fond of straight away. Then it is more than likely you will lose them.
Well I hope this article have been of some use to you, this information is from what I've learned over the years of dating. Hopefully it will help you have more success and give you a head start in front of most.
Also there are many other tips out there on the internet which may help you, but these are just my top 5 ways of which I think are most important GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY DATING.
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Memorial gardens, featuring small, designed burial grounds for cremated remains, are growing in popularity. Their success is really no mystery. The innate characteristics of memorial gardens, established for communities, churches and other nonprofit organizations, allow these organizations to successfully establish a burial ground, a proposition traditionally deemed difficult. These characteristics offer advantages to the organizations which establish memorial gardens as well as the individuals who plan to use them.
- Rising demand for cremation: Memorial gardens exclusively service interment of cremated remains. The rate of cremation, as of 2008, in the US is about 28% and growing each year. While traditional cemeteries have begun to offer provisions for cremation burials, it is still less common.
- Minimal regulation: Since cremated remains pose no biological threat, memorial gardens have far less regulation. And religious organizations offering interment of cremated remains typically have little to no regulation.
- Low start-up and operating costs: Memorial gardens are typically built by non-profit organizations with a strong membership base. Benefactors within the organization often provide funds to establish a memorial garden. Volunteers from the community often perform functions like marketing, administration and maintenance.
- Minimal infrastructure: Memorial gardens make very efficient use of limited space, especially when they use existing walls and vertical columbarium construction. At most, memorial gardens need a wall, a columbarium, pavement and landscaping.
- Minimal maintenance: Most maintenance issues arise from infrastructure. Being compact and simple in nature minimizes these issues for memorial gardens. Memorial gardens also tend to be in a secure environment, which lessens the risk of damage due to vandalism. Furthermore, memorial gardens require no equipment for burial which requires maintenance and can cause damage to existing structures.
- Source of buyers: Many non-profit organizations, by nature, have a built-in market: their members. They know who their members are and how to reach them. The members, in turn, are provided with the opportunity for a unique and frequented resting place.
- Style: Memorial gardens have certain traits that make them very special. Indeed, no two memorial gardens are the same. They are frequently designed by architects to be visually pleasing. Due to their design and size, memorial gardens are very intimate and comforting.
- Offerings: Memorial gardens can offer related paid products and services like cemeteries do. Offerings can include personalized services, burial related items like urns, and commemorative events. Non-profit organizations are also in a position to offer very personal death care counseling and support to members.
- Belonging: The fact that memorial gardens are part of a distinct community imbues meaning and belonging to each burial. Individuals in a community’s memorial garden belonged and contributed to that community. In turn, the community cares for their resting place and honors their memory.
- Perpetual care: Memorial gardens are located within vibrant communities with dedicated facilities. This removes concerns about insolvency, abandonment or redevelopment.
Finally, one of the most important aspects of memorial gardens is their purpose. While memorial gardens can generate a positive cash flow, they ultimately exist to serve and strengthen the membership base of an organization. And that translates into to memorial garden success.
The thing that I like the most about Hypnotherapy and Self Hypnosis is that it just makes it so much easier and much more possible to achieve your goals and your dreams. But today's article isn't about the effectiveness of Hypnosis and I am not going to go in to the detail of how it works, however I want to tell you a story about a client that came to see me sometime ago for a problem with Jealousy. For the sake of the article we will refer to her as, Sara.
The first thing that I remember from Sara was the call that she made into the office. She originally called to get some more information on coming to see me for private one to one sessions. I filled her in and told her about the sessions and the potential cost of treatment.
A few weeks later Sara came for her first appointment. When she walked into my treatment room, it was plain to see that Sara had big problems with her confidence and insecurities. During the first session she explained how everything was and just how badly her jealousy was affecting her and how it was tearing apart her relationship with her boyfriend. Because I didn't want to leave Sara upset after telling me about all of the negative things going on, I decided to use Emotional Freedom Technique, which is a fast acting technique to help people just like Sara.
After a week Sara was back at my office for her second session. She reported that the EFT that I had taught her the week previous had worked wonders. She told me of how she went the whole two days after the session not feeling negative or jealous at all.
At this point I decided to teach Sara Self Hypnosis as I wanted her to use it side by side with the EFT that I had already taught her. While she was in Hypnosis I gave her loads of suggestions which were specific to the situation that she was in. We then set another appointment for two weeks later.
Well two weeks flew by for Sara and when she walked back into my office on that third session it was like seeing a new person. She reported to me that she had had a fantastic two weeks and both her and her partner felt that their relationship was going through the 'Honeymoon' period again!
After that third session I never saw Sara again, however every so often I get a phone call or a little note in the post to thank me and to update me on her continued progress and success.